Once each partner has sufficient experience with his or her own sexual response, they may wish to try mutual stimulation. This is best done on a bed, rather than on a massage table. Simply lie down facing each other, heads close together, and pleasure each other with your hands. Again, for men slightly pulling away or giving some other cue when ejaculation is imminent will allow play to continue.
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Why Relaxation Massage?
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It's a great way to give someone an experience of being totally taken care of and free of any responsibilities. It's good for the body. Any book on therapeutic massage will list a number of positive, documented effects of massage on the body and mind. It feels good.
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Why Erotic Massage?
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Erotic massage is one of the best ways to help someone achieve extended, multiple, or "whole body" orgasmic states.
You can't get pregnant from erotic massage, even if you aren't using any sort of birth control. Thus, it's a great way for male/female couples without access to birth control to make love.
When intact latex gloves are used, there is no risk of STD transmission regardless of what sort of genital or anal pleasuring is being performed. Most people find latex gloves easier to deal with and less intrusive than condoms or dental dams. Furthermore, if your skin is healthy and you aren't going to be coming into contact with infected skin or body fluids, then gloves aren't necessary at all.